my proposal is simple but effective:
Change the size of the Login button to the soze of the Forgot Password button and vice versa.
Size equals importance. Until most pihole users remember (hopefully) their password, the login activity should get emphasized and the forgot pw activity de-emphasized.
After entering my pw I almost always hit spontaneously the forgot pw button, instantly remembering to hit the other smaller button ...
Maybe you guys can change the optics a little. Since pih is getting better and better this would make my day (and others probably too).