Thank you JFB,
Well I guess I shouldn't feel so bad for not having been able to see what is wrong..... and I would if it wasn't for the gorilla in the room.,, It doesn't seem to work for a semi wide range of very common systems.
So of the many systems I have here I have not found one which once they begin using the DHCP from the Pi-hole server will function properly so... that range covers:
A Raspberry Pi 4 running the latest full version of Raspberry Pi OS, which I'm counting as an exhibit of Debian.
An X86 machine with the latest version of Manjaro, which I'll count towards an Arch based system
A Macbook Pro running OS X, which probably isn't a good example of BSD but in and of itself OS X counts for something
A very wide variety of Android based devices which covers an even wider range of Android versions. From an old Nexus tablet running Android v4.4.? A Samsung Galaxy Tablet running a few years old, another Galaxy tablet new in December, A Samsung phone from about a year and a half back, an other Samsung phone from about two and half years back, and an off brand noname tablet from.... lord I have no idea
I do have but have not tried an iPad which is a few years old, an old 1st generation Kindle Fire, I almost forgot there is a Windows 10 desktop as well.
So moving forward I can try those platforms I have not tested but I would be surprised if they do not function similarly. And I do agree that from a DNS perspective the Pi-hole seems to be working fine. I haven't figured out how to check the settings received from the Pi-hole DHCP on the Android devices but it looked fine on the Debian, Arch, and OS X devices which makes it unlikely to be DHCP related.......
Wow, I'm not really sure...... I do not know if you are aware but Bucking_horn was kind enough to assist me with my original issue where the Pihole admin page was not showing any metrics BUT WAS BLOCKING Ads. He noted that my test client was not actually using the Pi-hole for DNS resolution. Which considering how I understand Pi-hole works seems to be a bit impossible however that is definitely what was happening....
Hmmm..... if you have any suggestions on what I might take a closer look at I would be grateful for any guess you might have. That said, for me there are two unknowns in this 1) The AT&T ARRIS BGW210-700 Modem/Router which I have been trying unsuccessfully to abtain the admin guide for from AT&T but saddly if it isn't something that is on a written script the AT&T support techs aren't of much assistance. So it is unknown. and 2) IPv6...... I honestly know little to nothing about IPv6. I wonder about that because through this activity I have noticed it seems inconsistent in that sometimes v6 addresses are used and others they aren't, sometimes not at all. So that is something I can look at. I do know that the AT&T router appeared to have one toggle for enabling and disabling DHCP but after studying the effects before I turned in the request for help here I found another toggle buried on a page in the AT&T router admin GUI which not the DHCP page.. turns out you have to turn off DHCP for IPv4 and IPv6 individually. Ah... and there is the IPv6 option in the pihole admin GUI dealing with an IPv6 option for which I blindly turned on. So I can explore that as well. About time I learned something about it anyways.
Ultimately though I guess what I'm going to have to do is capture some packets and actually look and see what exactly is happening. Always a pain but when ya run out of guesses..........
AGain thank you and if you think of anything I might hold suspect I would love to hear it. I wish at least one device would function correctly so I'd have something to compare it to...... Hell this was supposed to be straight forward I thought, Buy a Pi, load the OS, load Pi-hole and enjoy :-)...... If I figure anything out I'll provide feedback.
Thank you and thank Bucking_horn for me as well
Dee