Pihole receives no requests - home has no connection when pihole is set as dns

How did you set the IP? Is it the upstream DNS of the router itself?
Because your router advertises itself und two public DNS servers via DHCP to its clients

   * Received 340 bytes from eth0:192.168.1.1
     Offered IP address: 192.168.1.10
     Server IP address: N/A
     Relay-agent IP address: N/A
     BOOTP server: (empty)
     BOOTP file: (empty)
     DHCP options:
      Message type: DHCPOFFER (2)
      server-identifier: 192.168.1.1
         lease-time: 86400 ( 1d )
      netmask: 255.255.255.0
         router: 192.168.1.1
      dns-server: 192.168.1.1
      dns-server: 1.1.1.1
      dns-server: 8.8.8.8
      renewal-time: 43200 ( 12h )
      rebinding-time: 75600 ( 21h )

The clients will then choose one of those DNS servers as they like to answer their DNS requests.

Set PI-hole as the only DNS server distributed via DHCP (and dis/reconnect the clients from the network to pick-up the new settings).